Squeezing Time and Letting Go

Where does the time go? Yesterday I was so blue about all the time I spend at work – 45 hours a week. After the day is over I feel like I have nothing left. I work hard. No creative energy/stuck physical energy = no good. I have to move my body to push the sadness out.

Tom told me I’d feel better after a ride, and of course, he was right. It wasn’t too cold – we did hill repeats (I did three, he did five) up a very steep street by the railroad tracks. Endorphins and exhaustion are often good remedies for anything that ails me. My legs hurt today.

Performing with The Halfbreeds, 1996. Francis Didonato on guitar. Photo by George Tiboni.
Performing with The Halfbreeds, 1996. Francis DiDonato on guitar. Photo by George Tiboni.

I looked at the full moon last night and thought about painting and writing, and how when I was in a band I managed to paint and write and rehearse and work and go to school – and now – I am lucky if I can squeeze out maybe an hour of writing a day, go to work, and ride my bike. (Of course, when I was capable of juggling so much, I was about twenty years younger and I lived in New York, and, I had a creative community where feedback was immediate so the work was energizing). I asked the moon to give me the strength and energy to follow through with my creative ideas while still having time for relationships and work.

When I ride I get clarity on things. Last night it became clear to me that I am afraid that if I have a career as an artist (and/or writer), I will not be able to maintain a love relationship. That fear has got to go! For me, career is part of my identity. Since last spring, I’ve stopped pushing creative work; I’ve been reevaluating what is important to me. Mostly, I’d rather cook and enjoy a shared meal, or stay in bed lying close to my man, than carve out the time for art. It’s been good to relax, though sometimes I feel like I’ve found myself in the middle of deep water with no land in sight. Maybe I am overfilling the well!

The longing to create is surfacing. “What next?” is the big question – why does it scare me? How do I make art a fun part of my life again?

Today I feel more open and hopeful. I feel alright about acknowledging the things that need balance and improvement – now I can take action. I edited the final three poems in a manuscript I’m submitting to a writing program. Two were attempts I began while taking a class with Nada Gordon at the Poetry Project, and another was from a journal entry.

And now I am taking baby steps. I came across two affirmations yesterday that are working for me:

There is always enough time for everything.

Everything happens in the right time.

I made this one up:

I surrender all fear to the healing power of love.

“What next?” is going to be fun.

Of course I can’t look ahead without looking back. I made a video a few years ago to go with some basic tracks of a song I recorded with my 90s band, The Halfbreeds. It’s a cover of Roky Erikson’s Slip Inside This House. The band was recording an album, when the project came to a halt. We never released it, nor got past basic tracks. This is a reminder that I don’t ever want to leave a creative project unfinished again.

So, on I go to, “What next?”

Om shanti.

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Holly hails from an illustrious lineage of fortune tellers, yogis, folk healers, troubadours and poets of the fine and mystical arts. Shape-shifting Tantric Siren of the Lunar Mysteries, she surfs the ebbs and flows of the multiverse on the Pure Sound of Creation. Her alchemy is Sacred Folly — revolutionary transformation through Love, deep play, Beauty, and music.

9 thoughts on “Squeezing Time and Letting Go

  1. Holly, you certainly have not lost your touch with writing!

    I AM sending out Email receipts to the pre-registered participants of my upcoming “Divine Prosperity Event,” feeling a little too full from dinner, drinking seltzer-infused iced tea, and looking forward to going to bed.

    And yet, as soon as I began reading your blog post it sucked me right in!

    Interestingly enough, the Full Moon that took place yesterday, Tuesday, February 3, 2015, was in Leo, which rules the Heart, and is one of the most creative Signs I have ever encountered in a Sun-Sign.

    Also, and not surprisingly, according to Raven Kaldera’s “MythAstrology,” the Deity that claimed Moon in Leo as representing said Deity’s Energies Is Bastet, the Ancient Egyptian Cat-Headed Goddess of Independence, Creativity, Music, Dance, and Pleasure.

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      1. Thanks for the link. Although, my Natal Mars-Sign is Pisces, so I have been enjoying it. And lately, I have wanted to sleep more, or for longer periods. Thanks for the link, I look forward to checking it out.


        1. Mine is Scorpio – both Venus and Mars. I just need to accept that it’s ok to be in a place of rest and to nurture my personal relationships. Time to work is coming! 🙂


          1. Absolutely! I still remember reading a passage from the “Relationships” Chapter in “Letters to Louise,” by Louise L. Hay. She recommended to someone that he (or she, as the case may be) take a six-month break after that person’s romantic relationship ended to heal and recover from its ending.

            This is Winter, which is a time of rest. And in Magickal Traditions, Spring began with Imbolc, on February 2. We are now in a period of returning warmth, in spite of what most of us are seeing and feeling on the East Coast, but I digress.

            Spirit told me that 2015 is “The Year of Taking it to the Next Level.” Prepare to do just that.


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